Did Spitzers wife deserve it? Could it happen to you?

Did Silda Spitzer deserve to have her husband cheat on her?
That is the question.
Is he just a real sex addict or is his wife withholding from him? If she knew he was a sex addict, what could she have done? She could have enrolled him in to therapy, she could have left him. Did she know or was she totally blind about his escapades?
I am sorry, but I believe any woman would have an inclination that things were just not right in the relationship. I cannot believe that she had no clue. Did she ever confront him? These are questions that we do not know, yet?
What I do want you to think about is: would you want this to happen to you. Are you willing to take the chance of having your Partner/husband/lover/SO do this sort of thing to you?
IT COULD.
Right now ask yourself. Are you doing everything you can to keep your man in your bed? Are you satisfying him, as well as you can? Are you giving him what he needs on as much as a regular basis as you can?
I know you are tired, the kids, the job, and  the house. All time consuming stressful conditions in your life. I realize that. When was the last time you actually spent even one hour together? Meaning no kids, no computer, no TV. Just you two enjoying one another completely?
Do you need that? Would you enjoy that time together? Guess what he would too!
I know scheduled sex seems so clinical. But it is needed. There are 168 hours in a week. Can you find 1 hour in that time per week to give each other what you both need? I think if you try just a bit you can.
What could be the difference between saving your relationship and keeping connected?  One hour per week that’s what!
What do you think?
Please comment
Thanks
Gina Grey
www.ourdatenight4woman.com
Email: ourdatenight@msn.com

March 14, 2008. marriage, relationship help, relationships, romance, sex, wives. No Comments.

I had sex with Tom Cruise last night.

Ok well actually some of Gina’s followers had sex with Tom Cruise last night. Ok Well it was like having sex with Tom Cruise.  Can you imagine? Many husbands this week and the male counterpart of a couple transformed into Tom Cruise. Remember the movie Risky business. Lets just say many men were sliding around with long buttoned up shirts, dancing around in skivies and hiding a precious gift for their lady hidden somewhere. Why you ask;

 to please you woman, silly.

Well they did it for multiple reasons.

1) Becuase they love you

2) Because I told them to.

3) Because beleive it or not they like to please us!

4) And they know we will be delivering utter satisfaction for them soon.

See everyone wins, we get a bit of romance, fun and a gift. They eventually will get their sex.

WIN WIN. I say……

Man if you weren’t a part of that assignment just try and picture it… It’s good stuff. And you missed a gift as well.  Oh well sorry…..

Stick with me girl you’ll get something soon I promise…..

“THE SEX GIRL”

March 5, 2008. Tags: , , , , , , , , . marriage, relationship help, relationships, romance, sex, wives. No Comments.

Is your Relationship in trouble?

My name is Gina Grey. I am here to help you rekindle your relationship. I specialise in reviving your relationship through romance and sex.

Bottom line is Men need Sex. Woman need Romance.

I can make both of you happy. I will bring the intimacyand  fun and love back into your life.

What happened to that first 6 months of courtship? How long ago was that?  Seems like forever huh? Can you think back to then? Think about how sexy and desired you felt? Remember when he would put on “his best self” for you. Are you living in a bored and dull world now? Daydreaming about those days before the kids? Before the house you now share? Are you  just so frustrated about your sex life you almost want to cry? When was the last time he brought you flowers, gave you a gift? When was the last time you took  an hour or two and just concentrated on the two of you?

Sure he as time for the computer, his sports, going to the gym and other activities. But you feel left out and you are supposed to be the most important thing in his life. “HA” You say. I know I hear ya…  life does take over I know it happened to me. I was married before and am currently married with two lovely children, (OK I  lied. one wonderful child, one terror) but i didn’t say that.  I know there all angels. LOL.  Man is that one trying. Good thing he’s cute that all I can say….

So back to my story. I was previously married, probably too young. I had no idea what marriage was. You know the saying if I knew then what I knew now. It was a failure on both our parts. And I take responsibility for my part. As everyone should.

Now I am on marriage number 2. This my friends is it.  I will not help to contribute to losing this one, especially with children involved. I was falling into the same ole ways of every other married couple in the world today. My world revolved around my kids as granted it should. The house and the kids is  a lot to handle as us woman know. And most of us as we know count our husband as one of our children.  Because well he needs looking after too. He knows it but will never admit it. Am I right? Well, it was getting tough there for a while. I was doing my job as a mom and housewife but definitely not as a wife. Sad to say that is a terrible thing to neglect. I want you to remember one thing, if I can help and teach you anything let it be this, your relationship is like a house. Your relationship is the FOUNDATION. Without the foundation there is no floor, no walls, no furniture. It’s just you you standing on the dirt by yourself.  Which scenario is better? I thought so. Without you and your partner/husband whatever there is no family. If your well being, happiness and children if you have them, are important to you then it’s up to you, to make that foundation solid. Not only am I going to do that for you. But your partner is going to love going through this process I’m going to teach you to make this happen….

I am here to help you not only rekindle that flame you not only forgot about but I will also bring you all the romance and joy you could possibly need.

Don’t laugh. I can do this for you and I’ll prove it. I have helped many many couples in your position. 

Don’t wait start today. Why put off happiness? That’s ridiculous.  I have turned the most unromantic man, into the most romantic man you’ve ever heard of. You will be swept off your feet. You will feel like a princess.

Now ladies, I’ve told you what he will do for you. Now, your wondering what do I have to do for them? Well your going to pamper and spoil him, like no other.

Before I go into details, may I ask you a question? Well, I’m going to anyway.

Do you think it would be easier to get  a divorce, move out, or have him move out, disrupt those children’s lives forever and go through all that unnecessary emotional upheaval?

Or do you think by dedicating an hour or two per week enjoying each other again fully totally with my suggestions and saving your current relationship would be much easier?

If you said yes to the second option. Then your at the right blog.

I create the most fun, sexy romantic plan to strengthen your love life.  I will do this for you every week. I will get you  support throughout the week, if you need it.  I promise you your whole relationship is going to sail past your greatest desires of what you think it could be.

Tell me what you think?  Are you interested?

March 3, 2008. Tags: , , , , , , , . marriage, relationship help, relationships, romance, sex, wives. 1 Comment.